Winning your Life Purpose …’Create the Life You Deserve…Starting Now’

Feeling is the internal resource that we all have within us, which allows us to exert energy in different ways.

For example, I may ask you how you feel about a particular issue or product or a place and your response would be triggered by the way you think of it, and the way you see it mentally, perhaps also based on personal experiences.

The action of Feeling is so powerful that it affects us in different ways, and so it’s important that we watch our feelings.

For example a feeling of fear, insecurity, lack of confidence, sadness, etc all need to be controlled as these have negative effect on the body.

Become aware of feelings in your daily life, and as much as possible control the feelings that make you unresourceful.

The following examples show various levels of feedings and the expressions that may be linked with the internal representation that one experiences at the time.

Note that these are examples, but they give you an overview on the power of feedings.

“I am feeling unsure” can be changed to “I feel a need to ask more questions about this” (which allows you to plan your next action and puts you in control, so consciously, you are aware, you know you have to do something, and you’re in charge).

“I feel upset” can be changed to “I feel unresourceful and need to work things out”

“I feel afraid” can be changed to “I feel a need to understand why I am afraid, I may need to engage a counsellor or further help”.

“I feel strange, this just isn’t for me “can be changed to “I have decided this is not for me”, again this gives you the feeling of control.

You see, these are only examples but rephrasing feelings will help you to become more resourceful in taking the next step or action towards solving issues at hand.

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More resourceful feelings would be statements like the following.

“I feel fantastic”.

“I feel really good about this”.

“I feel positive and energetic”

“I’m really looking forward to this”

“I feel great about my new job”

“I feel challenged about my new role”

So, how can you use Feelings to attract your desires?

Okay, take a pen and a piece of paper now and jot down 10 things you’re grateful for, and when you can spare 10 to 15 minutes in a quiet room, where you’ll not be disturbed, go over your list, and allow the feeling of gratitude to really sink in as you go over each item on your list.

Now, choose one major priority area in your life that you’d like to focus your resourceful feelings on, and let your inner senses delve deeply into your DESIRES in this particular area of your life.

Feel the feelings of having achieved it, see what you see, mentally visualize it, you can make this achievement a brighter experience in your mind, with daylight or brighter lights, you can dim the light a little (for example, if it’s a romantic experience), is there any sound that’s important? just let the feelings suit whatever you want it be at this particular moment.

Give yourself time to really bask in those feelings for about five minutes until you really feel that this is a desire you’d drive to achieve.  Energize it with four deep breaths, and when you’re done, say thank you to your subconscious mind.  Take the next step of writing down your immediate action points that spring to mind following your new resourceful experience towards achieving this desire.

As you do this repeatedly, you’d be amazed, over time that you’ll be drawing yourself closer and closer to your hearts desires.

And that in a nutshell is the Astonishing and Resourceful Power of Feelings.

 

 

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This was the work of Dr Herbert E. Hawkes, Dean of Columbia College, Columbia University in New York from 1917 to 1943.  He also explained that worry stems from confusion about any issue.  Helping over 200,000 students during his 25 years in office solve their worry problems, he knew what he was talking about from real life experiences.

So, what is worry?

Well, without regurgitating the dictionary version, quite simply, worry is a case of ones mind going round and round in circles with a particular issue or issues and yes, you guessed it, getting nowhere.  In fact one could end up with either a headache or in some other cases, I have seen people worry themselves into quite depressive states.

Dr Herbert also believed from his practical experiences of working with people from various background that Worry is also heightened when people try to decide on issues or go over issues without having the bare truthful facts on which to make decisions.

Indeed, from his practical knowledge, he developed some simple Guidelines to “Clean Worry” and allow the enjoyment of Life as it should be.

Now, you may be asking here, does this mean no problems at all, and life becomes one smooth roller coaster?

Surely not…

However, what it does mean is that you can discover and master how to take absolute control over all situations and become the master of yourself and your environment, rather than let them control you.

In a quotation he states:

“If a man was to devote his time to securing facts in an impartial, objective way, his worries will usually evaporate in the light of knowledge”

Now, I’ve done this for many years and used the same principle to work with people from all walks of life, so I know that this works brilliantly if you allow it and follow the simple steps.

The particulars of worry situations are different, but the method outlined below is just one of the simple but easy ways of transforming your life from that of worry to that of VICTORY.

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Ok, how should we look at worry or problems that need sorting before they turn into ongoing branches with roots to nowhere?

Quite frankly, it will help you to start looking at these as challenges that can be sorted in one way or another.  As long as you live, you’ll always have to deal with challenges, it will benefit your personal growth to embrace them with an open heart and understand how to deal with them in a calm and logical way.

So, in embracing the challenges of life, in an objective way, here’s an antidote for worry that Dr Herbert E Hawkes used to help over 200,000 people solve their worry problems during his 25 years as the Dean of Columbia College, Columbia University in New York, until his death in 1943.

The Key

a)      Understand fully the facts of what you are worrying about, and note that this doesn’t mean guessing the facts, find out the facts from the relevant reputable sources.  When you get the true facts, you know exactly what you are dealing with.  For example, make further enquiries, write, research etc, be honest with yourself and do what you need to do to secure the bare information.

b)      Now, armed with the facts, review all information available to you and see what options you have, and how they affect your particular situation. Again maintain communication with the relevant sources until you are clear on your next action, and your available options

c)      Having reviewed the options, make an informed decision and act on it, based on the facts you have and the hint here is not to leave it too long, otherwise it may spiral into another worry situation with deeper roots and branches.  So, make a decision soon after, even if you decide to do nothing and defer it, you know that it’s a decision based on the information you have or know at the time.  You can then decide to review again at a set time later.  It’s important to set a time for further review if you take this route.

Well, here you have it, the 3 point formula, and you’ll generally find that once you know the facts, the problem generally solves itself, as the solution may just be starring you right in the face.  According to experts, confusion is the biggest cause of worry. So arm yourself with the facts and confusion literally evaporates, allowing you to make informed decisions and create the life you deserve.

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Some People would have you believe that Affiliate Marketing is really dead easy but the reality is that Affiliate Marketing is just like any other business and you need to put the time and the resources needed to make it a success.

So what is Affiliate marketing Mind Power?

 Quite simply this is where you apply your own Personal Unique Internal Resources to make money selling other peoples products. IN this case, you develop a close relationship with what you’re promoting and this helps to build Trust with visitors to your site.

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Think about it for a moment, when you promote a product that you have tried and tested, knowing it works well, then your promotion will most definitely have a personal edge to it, and this comes across

You see, when you apply your own internal resources to anything, which gives it an angle or a different perspective, then you’re putting it above the rest, because this is YOU applying your Mind Power and uniqueness to Energize a product.

So, before you decide on affiliate marketing for a particular product, here are some simple Energizer methods you can use to create your success blueprint.  This helps to build and focus your Mind into a success driven route from the very start.

Understand that you’ll be recommending this to people who may not have heard of the product before, so try it, ask questions, do you feel this is something you’d recommend to a close friend, are you happy with it, the topic, the type of product etc. Check with yourself that you really are 100%, then decide on your tasks to get you going.

Go into this with a positive Mind Frame for success, and consider the following key areas

 Here are your steps to maintaining Success Mind Focus

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Accept giving Value as a priority

When you fully understand and have tried and tested the product you promote, then you are actually giving value to your prospects because what you’re doing is recommending something you know that works to help them solve a problem or sort issues in their lives. So your first priority is to help people solve problems by giving value.  Keep your mind on this and the value you put out will eventually come back to you many folds.  People appreciate Value, we all do, and this focus builds your success over time.

Make it interesting to you

OK, try to choose an area of Affiliate marketing that interests you because that’s Passion Earning.  For example, if you love fishing, it’s important that you start with fishing products because the interest you have in the subject will actually come through as you promote the product. Again, another Mind Power Energizer.

Mind Focus to discipline yourself

Discipline is very important, and you need to keep very focussed

with your action plans.  Carefully write down your tasks and keep to it as much as possible.  Keep track on how you’re progressing and when something happens to take you off track, simply get back to your target.  Try and keep your Mind from wandering into other areas until you finish the task at hand.  Be careful not to take on too much.

Be realistic with YOU.

Being realistic with yourself is important.  Your intuitive mind will give you the hint.  So take account of your current commitments and choose timescales that you’re comfortable with and which you feel you can keep to.

Persistence

Tell yourself to be persistent as you go along and do take into account the big word Patience because as the saying goes, “Rome was not built in a day”.  At the same time, note that issues cropping up along the way are Challenges for growth and experience. 

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Think about it for a moment, when you promote a product that you have tried and tested, knowing it works well, then your promotion will most definitely have a personal edge to it, and this comes across